If you cannot handle yourself, nobody else can. You have to understand yourself first, and you have to decide what’s good for you.
You have to accept and you have to take charge of your decisions. You have to make your decisions all by yourself and then stick to them too.
If you’ve decided one thing, be firm, be strong, follow it till the end. Don’t get carried away, don’t get distracted, follow what you’ve said. Follow what you’ve declared.
Be strong. Things, people, situations or emotions cannot break you down. You are incharge to control them and your own self.